Table Talk: Lessons the ‘You’re Not Special’ Graduation Speech
- June 15, 2012 |
- by The Family Dinner
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It’s the end of the school year, and countless public figures — from Maria Shriver and Jane Lynch to Mitt Romney and President Obama — have already shared their thoughts about life, work and the meaning of achievement with graduating college students across the country.
But a Massachusetts English teacher has stolen much of the spotlight from these authors, actors and politicians with his high school commencement remarks. David McCullough, Jr.’s speech, delivered at Wellesley High School, already has more than a million views on YouTube, and it’s generated a whole slew of on- and off-line commentary. Its message to graduating high schoolers? “You’re not special.”
Contrary to what you might expect, McCullough’s goal isn’t to crush his students’ dreams of success in the wider world. Rather, his message is about humility, and the importance of taking pride in yourself, rather than only finding joy in public recognition. “Climb the mountain not to plant your flag,” he says, “but to embrace the challenge, enjoy the air, and behold the view.”
Indeed, the core of McCullough’s advice is this: “Don’t wait for inspiration or passion to find you. Get up, get out, explore; find it yourself; grab hold with both hands.” If public praise follows, so much the better. But don’t count on it — and don’t ever let it be the sole measure of your success.
* Do you agree with the points Mr. McCullough makes in his speech?
* Whose approval means the most to you? A parent’s? A teacher’s? A coach’s? Your own?
* Do you think it’s good to be told that you’re not perfect, or to be shown when you’ve done something wrong?
* What’s the thing you’ve done recently that you are most proud of — whether or not it was recognized by anyone else?
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