Here’s a fun game to play at the table tonight that might just give you a little insight into what your kids think about themselves (and about you too!!)
Round One: Describe yourself in three adjectives (an adjective is a word used to describe a noun). My personal favorites include “juicy,” “crunchy” and “luscious.” If your kids are old enough, try to challenge everyone to use words that are a little more descriptive than the simple ones like “smart,” “pretty,” and “athletic.” This is also a great time to talk about what a thesaurus is and even pull one out to use at the table.
Round Two: Assign three adjectives to everyone else at the table. Try not to repeat the exact words used in round one. Again, a thesaurus comes in handy here!
Round Three: Pick three adjectives that describe who you would like to become. For example, if you don’t have the best singing voice and can’t play an instrument, you might wish that you could add “melodious” or “harmonious” to your list.
Share your favorite adjectives with us here…
As we say, dinner is as much about the conversation as it is about healthy, delicious food. But it’s not always easy for families to open up and talk to each other. That’s where table games come in.
Remember, it’s not always necessary to have deep, revealing conversations with each other. Just talk, about anything, and have fun! Here are a couple of story game suggestions to get your table talking:
I’m a huge fan of using games, word play and conversation starters to get the discussion going at the dinner table. Here are some of my favorites:
1. The Pet Peeve and Idiosyncrasy game. This is a sure fire way to get everyone chatting at the table. First, be sure to define and differentiate between “Pet Peeves” (annoyances) and “Idiosyncrasies” (any personal peculiarity or mannerism). It’s fun to debate the subtle difference with your family! Once you’ve done this, go around the table and ask each person to name a pet peeve and one of their idiosyncrasies. (You can do them as separate rounds or together.) And as an addendum, if your family has a good sense of humor and they aren’t sensitive types, you can play a version of the game where you name one another’s idiosyncrasies and pet peeves. (Believe me, they know more of your quirks than you do!)
2. Something I Like About Myself. This one is pretty self explanatory! And it’s really easy to get the little ones at the table talking. A version of this game is saying something that you like about the person to your right and go around the table. Try to be creative!
3. Highs and Lows. This one is a classic. Everyone goes around the table and says the high point of their day and the low point. It’s a great way to hear about what happened at school or practice that day without the usual “how was your day, honey?” “Fine.” conversation! The Obamas play a version of this game that they call “Rose and Thorn.”
4. Would You Rather… I have a whole list of these hypothetical questions in The Family Dinner book (Would you rather jump in a cold pool or do an extra hour of homework? Would you rather go bowling or shopping for pants?) And it’s fun to have everyone come up with their own as well.
Let us know. What works at your table to get the conversation going?
With 2015 fast approaching, here’s a fun family dinner game around the tradition of the New Year’s resolution. Although resolutions, like gratitude, should be something we focus on year round. To aid in that quest, try this dinner table game:
• Everyone write a resolution on a slip of paper, for a change you want to make or just work on. Or try calling it a “determination” — it’s less New Year’s sounding, isn’t it?
• Fold them up and place them in a bowl.
• Select a reader who reads one at a time. Everyone guesses which thought belongs to whom.
There are lots of fun variations of this game, including writing a resolution for someone else at the table (kind ones only!) or one wish for the world, or one thing that makes you happy. A simple fun game that will get everyone talking and laughing, and extend your dinner a few precious moments longer.